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Becky's avatar

The holy trinity really does make beautiful clothes. My ultimate cool girl designer is Nili Lotan. If I had the means I would dress head to toe in her clothes.

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Jess Graves's avatar

I love her too, that suede barn jacket this season is killer

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Becky's avatar

Yes! It’s perfection!

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Lindsay Sword's avatar

I loved this piece and your pulls but I am ready to make a confession: I don’t think I’m a Khaite, The Row, Toteme girlie. I have some beautiful pieces I love (especially from Toteme), but at the end of the day, these looks look like someone I admire, not the person I am. But I love seeing others rock them!

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Jess Graves's avatar

you don't have to be!

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Grace Atwood's avatar

That belted Loewe top is an absolute dream.

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Jess Graves's avatar

I knew you'd like that one

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Noora Raj Brown's avatar

Let’s all get it. Belted Loewe triplets.

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Jess Graves's avatar

I think it’s the coat for me

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Mary Z's avatar

Omg the Loewe coat. I want to cry.

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Jess Graves's avatar

same

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Brooke's avatar

The new Toteme bag is VERY pretty

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Denise Rodriguez's avatar

I thought so too then I went on net-a-porter and the video makes it seem like the opening is impractical for daily use.:(

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Brooke's avatar

Oh no! You’re probably right. I hate when a bag looks good but doesn’t function as expected.

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Jess Graves's avatar

Hi! I just got this bag and it’s actually fantastic. Opening is solid, bag is deep but no so deep you can’t find anything and the strap goes over my shoulder even with a jacket on. I love this bag

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Brooke's avatar

Oh amazing! It does look very good

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Jess Graves's avatar

the little buckle on the front is very Hermes so I have been styling it open the way a lot of people do with their Kelly bags

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Brooke's avatar

Love that! The shape does remind me of a kelly shoulder bag or the row backpack 11

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Noora Raj Brown's avatar

And I want every outfit. Even more than usual. That green Loewe coat. Deceased.

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Kayli's avatar

So chic + I love that none of it feels overly complicated. Just high-quality pieces that speak for themselves.

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Jess Graves's avatar

You get it!

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Anne Banks Easter's avatar

I want everything😭😭

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Laura Rothstein's avatar

Really love reading your pieces!

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Jess Graves's avatar

Thank you! Glad you're here

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Marisa's avatar

The green savette bag stole the show for me

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Jess Graves's avatar

She’s pretty fantastic

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Kate's avatar

Now I just need the budget to buy every one of these outfits. All of them are 😘

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Megan Karp's avatar

B-e-a-utifil roundups. 🤌🏻

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Megan Karp's avatar

And also: the quotes.

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Nicole Reilly's avatar

Any thoughts if debating between the toteme t lock and the belted tote?

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Jess Graves's avatar

Belted all the way

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Allison's avatar

I loved this piece...as I do all of your pieces! Do you think The Row N/S park tote is worth the price? Or do you have another black bag at that price that you love better?

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Jess Graves's avatar

But if you want a black tote then I think it's very much about the toteme bucket bag rn

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Allison's avatar

Thank you so much! This is just the nudge I needed to get the toteme one!

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Jess Graves's avatar

I got it too :) we can be twins

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Jess Graves's avatar

I love the Park tote but get it in a brown leather -- then it will patina really beautifully as you beat it up!

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RD's avatar

These are all beautiful but I’m genuinely curious who can afford to regularly shop at these places

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Jess Graves's avatar

Plenty of people, many of them readers of this newsletter. We have a lot of cool women with big jobs who are badasses and like to look the part.

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Miller Henry Grace's avatar

Interesting 🤔💯

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Denise Rodriguez's avatar

I ususally splurge on several pieces and then include reasonably priced dupes because I enjoy having a roof over my head:)

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Kit Marlowe's avatar

I wish Khaite fit petite humans. Somewhere along the line, the sizing changed, and it just feels impossible to find a piece that fits, even with a great tailor.

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Jess Graves's avatar

do you follow @shayinjune? She is a great resource for petites and wears lots of Khaite

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Kit Marlowe's avatar

This is a great one! Thanks for the rec.

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