We all have that one friend who never leaves the house. And why would she? It’s better there. It’s where her stuff is. Her tub! Her bed! Her snacks! A litany of movies and TV shows on demand and food delivery services to cater to her every craving!
She always has the best sheets, the coziest bathrobe, and the softest pajamas. There are candles and fresh flowers on every surface. Her nest is feathered, and she’s just fine here, thank you, because self-care is life. Here are some ideas she’ll appreciate.

She loves a lilting fragrance, but she’s picky about scent. She loves fine china, but you don’t know her brand or pattern. Get her a chic incense holder from the brand all the girls covet, Astier de Villate. Wrapped up with the incense sticks to match (get the Grand Chalet fragrance, trust me), she’ll enjoy a little luxury every time she cozies up by the fire.
Jenni Kayne Farmhouse throw blanket. Dora Larsen Red Rumi Tulle Underwired Bra. Ormaie Tableau Parisien Eau de Parfum. Maison Balzac Bordeaux Wine Glasses. Aarke Carbonator Pro. Neccesaire The Sex Gel. Santa Maria Novella Melograno Bath Salts. Kitsch exfoliating body brush. Asceno London silk eye mask.
BIRKENSTOCK X TEKLA Nagoya shearling-lined suede clogs. Jenni Kayne cashmere Porter turtleneck. Yves Durif Brush D'or. Anastasio Home x Alessandra Codinha Duet Short Marble, Stone Vase. Santa Maria Novella Room Fragrance Diffuser Asia. Tekla striped organic cotton robe. John Derian playing cards. Regalis black truffle popcorn.
DM me your holiday shopping questions @jessnellgraves, or leave a comment on this post. More ideas? Check out our gift guide for the coolest girl you know.