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Jess Graves's avatar

I think I also want to add that someone like Kendall Jenner is not WRONG for abiding by house codes. Her (my opinion) motivation is completely different than most people -- she is thinking about Internet culture and paparazzi photos and how they'll age over decades. Someone like her is motivated by legacy and taking a page from the CBK playbook to err on the side of timelessness because she is famous and knows her outfits will be dissected by her kid's kid's best friend's neighbor's babysitter. She knows exactly what she is doing! But the girl also breaks out crazy ass Mugler for a red carpet.

Jennifer Galante Han's avatar

had to pause my reading to calculate 9% of 75 pairs of 400 jeans

Christine's avatar

…and it’s only 2700 bucks! No one’s getting a new life on that 🙃

Jess Graves's avatar

Instructive but not reductive is a line I am always walking, and I'm not sure if I fell off the wire here or not

Principal's Daughter's avatar

Good style is always instructive.

kristi elliott's avatar

This was GREAT. I like the baby birds comment and how the lack of friction stunts our collective growth. So. well. said.

Sogole Kane's avatar

Brilliantly said, as per the usual.

Jess Graves's avatar

We all know I love The Row, but I really feel strongly it’s primarily an idyllic backdrop for vintage

Sogole Kane's avatar

I really feel they built it that way. How it’s been translated is another story…but the original intentions still hold true.

Jess Graves's avatar

the whole genre of "if you like the row then you might like..." and then it's like, Neous and LeSet is fine. But if you *buy* the row then you might REALLY just be a vintage shopper waiting to blossom.

Jennifer Heinen's avatar

Jess, I worked for The Row as a tech designer doing spec and quality control and you just articulated something I wish more people understood about the brand. The minimalism isn't identity, it's infrastructure. Every piece is obsessively crafted, designed to last, built on inconspicuous consumption - the opposite of announcing yourself.

But when people treat The Row as identity substitute (I am a Row person = minimalist, refined, elevated), they miss what the brand actually IS: foundation for thinking about what you actually want to say with your clothes.

The Row teaches you HOW to think (precision, quality, intention). But if that becomes the entire thought instead of the beginning of the thought, you are not building a wardrobe, you are building a uniform. And now as a fashion psychologist I can firmly say that is when minimalism becomes a cage.

Your canvas metaphor is perfect. The problem isn't The Row, it's stopping there ♥️

Jess Graves's avatar

🤝🤝🤝🤝🤝🤝🤝

Jennifer Heinen's avatar

🤝 ♥️

Olga Montserrat's avatar

It’s content like this that makes it a pleasure to click and buy from the sole affiliate link on this page.

Jess Graves's avatar

Damn that’s a good compliment

Olga Montserrat's avatar

And a commission 💫

Jen Magaña's avatar

Reading this after work today… that photo of the Olsen twins is such a jump scare

Jess Graves's avatar

LOL terrifying

Christina Grasso's avatar

I always say they’re a prime example of wearing vs styling. The Row provides a foundation, as you said, but the way they interpret it is entirely their own and personal taste cannot be replicated. Loved this!

Jess Graves's avatar

You’re a prime example of taking the foundation and building something entirely your own

Zara Wong's avatar

Loved reading this for your ideas and also your beautiful writing.

Jess Graves's avatar

Loved your piece on their jewelry collections!

Alice Betts's avatar

This was honestly a pleasure to read

Heather Sullivan's avatar

Yes!!!

Elizabeth Grace's avatar

This was so honest & brilliant

Frosso's avatar

This is so well written, and I found myself nodding along with everything.

Gwendolyn's avatar

That the Olsen twins don't wear the Row as starkly minimalist as it looks on its own is actually a really interesting point. I had never thought of that before. Minimalism makes me sad, but having seen the Row from close up in the shop I had to acknowledge how besutiful they were, and also how good they look when worn by the Olsens the way you describe. Now I'm off searching for images of MK & Olivier's home!

Perveen's avatar

Shop consume chase, distilled perfect 🤌🏽