What I Actually Bought on Black Friday

And how I plan to style it.

How I’m styling my “Black Friday” buys (links in copy). Hearts denote sale purchases.

Hi! How was your Thanksgiving? We ate at The Corner Store and had a really decadent, fun meal. Their food is allllll about pleasure, and I love that dedication. Anyway, though Cyber Week usually means more work for me than play, I did find the time to do a little bit of shopping in between reporting sale coverage.

So, what did I actually buy with my real dollars this weekend? A pair of BMX trousers from the Phoebe Philo private sale, which I’m going to use to anchor more basic pieces when I need a weird foil. My dog chewed the straps off not one but three of my favorite bras (Hank!!!), so I also treated myself to some Fleur du Mal (this, this), EBY, and Simone Perele (this for $22.50 — their archive sale is 70% off).

I found a pair of mules by The Row that I’d eyed earlier this year, marked down 40% on Moda Operandi with only my size and another left. Grabbed ‘em. They already arrived, they fit and they’re comfortable. In the same Moda cart, I added one of Ossa New York’s iPhone cords (40% off), this one in a zippy, festive configuration that screams “hello holidays!”. Finally, I took advantage of Violet Grey’s 20% off discount to get a bottle of one of my all-time favorite fragrances, Frederic Malle’s Portrait of a Lady.

For others? I treated my (22 year old) sister in law to be to a pair of Freda Salvador’s beloved Elba penny loafers (25% off) and a leather faux fur-trimmed coat from Avec Les Filles (40% off). A nice bottle of shaving cream from Fur for her boyfriend (30% off). A Tatcha restock for my Mom (Dewy cream, Rice wash, and Essence — 25% off), a discounted Therabody LED mask for a certain skin-concerned bridesmaid (this thing gives you a scalp massage!), and a Cumulus cold brew coffee machine ($200 off) + a Loftie alarm clock for a special someone in my life who doesn’t sleep well (I love the brown noise function on mine — 25% off). Oh, and Beautyblenders for stocking stuffers (25% off)!

If you’re shopping this weekend too, everything that I think is worth a glance is detailed here for your skimming pleasure, including some discount codes exclusive to The Love List:

I’ll also be adding to Instagram Stories and Substack Chat with shopping selects through Monday. Cheers!