Pajama Power Shopping: Unimpeachable Sale Selects

A triple-filtered, thoroughly-vetted Black Friday/Cyber Monday edit.

Today’s send is in partnership with BeautyBlender, with additional support from Boll & Branch and EBY.

Gird your loins babes, ‘tis the season.

The markdowns have kicked in earlier than ever this year, so in the interest of prime selection, I’m sending out our Black Friday / Cyber Monday guide a few days earlier than planned. That way, you can have it on hand this evening, for that Thursday afternoon post-turkey nap, or on Cyber Monday when your inbox is so overwhelming you want to wipe the whole damn thing.

I’m not going to be preachy about what you should or shouldn’t buy or why. Your wallet, your choice. If you’re looking for shopping sanctimony, this is not the place. All I will say is that below is a highly considered, very thorough edit of what’s out there right now, prioritizing the products and retailers we think are the most special year-round.

I hope it’s helpful as you pajama power shop and pillage the booty of Internet seas. This letter is full of exclusive discount codes you won’t find elsewhere, private sale links not advertised to the public, and heads up on deals that aren’t even live yet. I will continue to update it over the course of the weekend.

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Jess’s Edit:

» BeautyBlender: The most consistent product in my beauty routine in the past ten years is a Beautyblender. I’ve tried every dupe, and nothing performs like the real deal. It’s the one tool I rely on every single day because it actually changes how makeup sits on my face. When it’s damp, it expands, gets soft, and won’t absorb product—that’s why the finish is always even and seamless.

I use it for everything: pressing in moisturizer and SPF, blending concealer, bouncing on foundation, softening blush, and smoothing edges so nothing looks heavy or streaky. And I always throw in the Blendercleanser because it’s the only thing that actually gets the sponge fully clean without tearing it up. If you need to restock, Beautyblender’s BFCM 25% off site wide sale is live now on their website.

» Boll & Branch: Boll & Branch’s holiday event is their biggest sale of the year—25% off $200+, and The Love List readers get 25% off with no minimum using code LOVELIST25 from today through December 3. When I’m setting up the guest room, I use their Percale Hemmed Sheet Set because it has that crisp-button-down feel—smooth, structured, and actually cool to the touch thanks to the long-staple organic cotton and the way it’s woven. And instead of a throw, I layer the Dream Bed Blanket at the foot of the bed; it has this soft, cloud-like texture from four lightweight layers of pre-shrunk organic cotton that drape beautifully and hold up wash after wash. It’s my go-to combination for an elegant guest room that feels fresh and genuinely welcoming.

» EBY: EBY’s Black Friday sale is officially live 11/27–11/29, and it’s the one readers wait for every year. Their sitewide BRA BOGO is back—this time on everything: bras, panties, tanks, all of it. Buy one, get one free with no limits or exclusions; add two of the same category to your cart, and one automatically goes free. (So if you buy two bras, you get two free. Buy three panties, get three free, and so on.) I’m stocking up because their bras are still the most comfortable, no-dig, no-show option I’ve found—and clearly, everyone else here agrees: their sheer mesh bralette continues to be one of our top-selling items every single month. Use code CYBER.

Holy Trinity + Friends of the House:

• OSSOU: THELOVELIST for 10% off.

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• Phoebe Philo: Private sale via this link.

• The Row: sale up to 40% off.

• Janessa Leone: private sale up to 30% off.

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• Colleen Allen: 40% off SS25 with code CATHELOVELIST40.

• Grey’s: 20% off site wide with code LOVE20.

• Kallmeyer: Private sale, 20% via this link. Use code GATHER20.

• Maison D’Etto: 25% off site wide with code LOVELIST25.

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• RE/DONE: 30% off side wide.

  • Worth noting: Hanes Oversized Crewneck, The Slim Cig Jean, Western Boot

• Khaite: sale up to 40% off.

• Frame: 30% off side wide.

  • Worth noting: The Stroll - Au Natural Clean, The Cashmere Fleck Cardi - Silver

MyTheresa BFCM Sale Edit.

• CO: sale up to 40% off.

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• Lingua Franca: 25% off site wide with code THANKS25. Includes custom and sale items.

• Net-a-Porter: sale up to 50% off thousands of items.

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• Vestiaire Collective: Black Friday deals up to 80% off.

  • Worth noting: Celine Sunglasses, Wardrobe NYC Vest, Prada Leather Flats, Chanel Handbag, Louis Vuitton Leather Wallet

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• Nour Hammour: up to 50% off.

  • Worth noting: Briar Cropped Bomber Jacket, Barrel Pants Softly Sculpted Leather Pants, Winter Scarf Decadent Shearling Scarf

• Barefaced: Up to 30% off sitewide.

  • Worth noting: Liquid Gold, Overachiever, Toning Pads

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• Métier:

  • Worth noting: Westman Atelier By Métier Makeup Train Case, Westman Atelier By Métier Petite Makeup Pouch, Edge Clutch, Incognito Small Pendulum 30, Edge Backpack, Parallel 22

• Victoria Beckham Beauty: 20% off site wide.

• TWP: Holiday sale on now, up to 50% off.

• Sold Out NYC: THELOVELIST15 for 15% off.

  • Worth noting: The Cashmere V-Neck in Heather Grey, The Everything Shirt in Olive, The RSVP Dress In Black

• Edie Parker: 25% off site wide.

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  Six Great Coats from the MyTheresa Sale.

• MyTheresa: luxury sale up to 50% off.

• TWP: The holiday sale, up to 50% off.

• RÔZ Hair: 20% off site wide, plus a complimentary full-size Foundation Mask on all orders over $125+.

• Liffner: 20% off select brown bags (Nov 24–26) and black bags (Nov 27–30)

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• Violet Grey: 20% off site wide, min spend of $250.

  • Worth noting: The Ultimate Serve Violet Box, The Rich Cream, Essential Face Compact

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• Dr. Idriss: 20% off site wide.

• Sofie Pavitt: 20% off site wide.

• Ghia: Black Friday sale up to 25% off.

• Crown Affair: 30% off Build Your Ritual

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  Net-a-Porter BFCM Sale Selects.

• AtPresent: JESS20 for 20% off designer jewelry site wide.

• Donni: 20% off everything.

• Anne Mashburn: Buy more, save more. Up to 25% off site wide.

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• U Beauty: 20% off site wide.

• Todd Snyder: 30% off site wide.

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• Cesta Collective: TheLoveList10 for 10% off.

• Jillian Dempsey: 30% off site wide.

• Ricari: Enjoy 20% off any treatment the week of November 21-29.

• Aerin Lauder: site wide home and lighting sale, up to 30% off.

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  Moda Operandi BFCM Sale Selects.

• Moda Operandi: designer sale 30-50% off.

• Suncliffe: 20% off site wide with code TLL20.

• La Ligne: sale up to 50% off. JESSGRAVES10 for 10% off full-price items.

• ILIA Beauty: 20% off site wide.

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• MUTHA: 20% off site wide.

  • Worth noting:

• Westman Atelier: 20% off site wide, + 40% off sets.

• Bergdorf Goodman: Extra 25% off designer sale.

• Jamie Haller: private sale, access via this link.

• Suzie Kondi: holiday private sale via this link.

• Attersee: Private holiday sale, access via this link.

• Regime des Fleurs: 25% off site wide.

• Comme Si: a complimentary gift with purchase, offered site-wide starting Thursday November 27 through Monday December 1st.

  

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The Holiday Beauty Edit 💋

Everything Else:

Beauty + Wellness Sales of Note (with product selects for your ease):

• Fresh: enjoy 50% off best-sellers and 30% off site-wide.

  • Worth noting: Rose & Hyaluronic Acid Deep Hydration Moisturizer, Black Tea Anti-Aging Moisturizer with Retinol-Alternative BT Matrix

• RMS Beauty: 30% off sitewide plus FREE 3-piece Mini Eyelights Kit, plus Eye Polish Brush when you spend $75.

  • Worth noting: UnCoverup Concealer

• Canopy: BFTHELOVELIST for up to 50% off site wide.

  • Worth noting: Bath Tub Filter, Bedside Humidifier 2.0

• Womaness: THELOVELIST25 for 25% off site wide on orders $65+.

  • Worth noting: Merry and Bright Kit, Tight Smooth Skincare Kit

• ISDIN: 30% off sitewide sale.

  • Worth noting: ISDINCEUTICS Melatonik®, Renew As You Dream Set

• Aveda: 25% off all shampoo, conditioner (including liters) and hair treatments. Free heatless curling set with orders $125+

  • Worth noting: Rosemary Mint Purifying Shampoo, Nutriplenish Leave-In Conditioner

• Nood: JESS10 for 10% off.

  • Worth noting: The Flasher Pro The Shave Kit

• Therabody: Save up to 35% off.

  • Worth noting: Theragun Mini, TheraFace Depuffing Wand

• Glow Recipe: Code JESS for 15% off.

  • Worth noting: Glass Balm Lip Treatment

• Tatcha: 25% off sitewide.

  • Worth noting: The Dewy Skin Cream, The Brightening Eye Cream, The Dewy Serum

• Fur: Save 30% sitewide.

  • Worth noting: Fur Oil, Ingrown Concentrate

• Elemis: 30% off sitewide* 15% off holiday kits + 5-piece gift with $195+ orders. Use code: CYBER.

  • Worth noting: Pro-Collagen Cleansing Balm, Dynamic Resurfacing Facial Pads

• T3: 11/17 – 11/30 (Black Friday): 30% off sitewide (except Aire 360, Aire IQ, CS) and $50 off Aire 360 + Storage Case GWP. 12/1 (Cyber Monday): 30% off sitewide and 40% off Aire 360, Aire IQ, CS

  • Worth noting: Aire 360, Singlepass Curl X Curling Iron

• Ritual: Get 40% off sitewide.

  • Worth noting: HyaCera™, Women’s Multivitamin 18+, Synbiotic+

• HigherDOSE: 20% off.

  • Worth noting: HigherDOSE Serotonin Soaking Salt, Infrared Sauna Blanket

• Perfumehead: THELOVELIST for 15% off.

  • Worth noting: The Icons Collection, The LA LA Love Set

• MAKE Beauty: 25% off site wide with code BFCM25.

• St. Rose: Enjoy 25% off with code BFCM25.

• Corpus: 25 % off sitewide + an extra 15 % off bundles (Nov 24 – Dec 1), with free shipping on order $50+.

  • Worth noting: Deodorant Stick

• Supergoop: 40% off side wide.

  • Worth noting: Glowscreen SPF 40, Glow Gloss SPF 40 Lip Balm

• ONESkin: 20% off $150 *including OS-01 HAIR (3-month supply subscription). 25% off $200. 30% off $300 *including Head-to-Toe Skin Health Trio.

  • Worth noting: The Nightly Rewind, OS-01 EYE Topical Supplement

• Olaplex: Offer: 30% OFF sitewide + Free Full-Size No.3 with $85 purchase (excl. Gold Holiday Kits) code: CYBER.

  • Worth noting: No. 7 Bonding Oil, Rich Hydration Mask

• Nutrafol: 25% off site wide.

  • Worth noting: Nutrafol Core for Women, Clear Skin Nutraceutical, Nutrafol Men

• Kate McCleod: Enjoy 25% off $75+ and special Holiday Set pricing.

  • Worth noting: Daily Stone | Deep Moisturizing Lotion Bar, The Everywhere Stick

• Dermstore: Up to 30% off with code: JOY.

  • Worth noting: UV Clear Broad-Spectrum Sunscreen SPF 46 (Duo), Professional C Serum 20%

• CurrentBody: 20% off devices.

  • Worth noting: Skin LED Red Light Therapy Face Mask, CurrentBody Skin LED Hair Growth Helmet

• Violette_FR: 20% off site wide or 25% off $150+.

• Deborah Pagani: 20% off site wide.

The Multi-Brand Retailer Sales of Note:

• Amazon: up to 55% off.

  • Worth noting: Apple 2025 MacBook Air 13-inch, Hatch Alarm Clock, Dyson Airwrap, Oura Ring 4, Amazon Kindle, Amazon Echo Dot

• SSENSE: up to 50% off.

  • Worth noting: Gray Flare 1978 D-Akemi Jeans, Exclusive Navy Atomic Cardigan, Black Cropped Feather Vest

• Saks: designer sale up to 50% off.

• Nordstrom: up to 60% off select styles.

• The Outnet: Extra 25% off almost everything.

• Shopbop: 25% off a broad selection of styles with code HOLIDAY.

• La Garconne: Enjoy up to 30% off select styles.

Specialty Retailer Sales of Note:

• Annie Bing: Take additional 25% off with code EXTRA25.

  • Worth noting: Kelanie Jacket, Printed Bar Silk Skirt, Trent Trouser

• Avec Les Filles: 30% off. JESS10 for an additional 10% off.

  • Worth noting: Vintage Wash Genuine Leather Aviator Jacket, Novelty Button Barrel Leg Jeans, Chevron Faux Fur Cropped Coat

• Theory: 25% off sitewide.

  • Worth noting: Staple Blazer, Double Pleat Pant in Sleek Flannel, Classic Scarf in Cashmere

• Aureum: 30% off discount site wide.

  • Worth noting: Vittoria Everyday Bag, No. 2 Belt

• Buck Mason:

• Tory Burch: 30% off $250+.

• Doen: Giving Thanks sale accessible via this link.

• Lunya: THELOVELIST for 20% off.

  • Worth noting: The Jet Set Kit, Washable Silk Long Robe, Washable Silk High Rise Pant Set

• Spanx: 30% off sitewide (some exclusions apply).

  • Worth noting: Shape Faux Leather Leggings, Wide Leg Pants, Airessentials Cocoon Cardigan

• Nili Lotan: save 10% with email sign up.

  • Worth noting: Chrissy Cashmere Sweater, Kiki Sweatpant

• Fleur du Mal: Up to 70% off.

  • Worth noting: Molded Luxe Triangle Bra, Angel Sleeve Robe, Le Stretch Lace Bodysuit

• Daphne: 20% off site wide.

• AYR: 20% off everything.

  • Worth noting: The Legend, The Lofty Softie

• LeSet: 30% off site wide.

• Eterne: 70% off select styles.

• Almina Concept: 25% off site wide with code ACTHANKSYOU25.

High Street + Mall Retailer Sales of Note:

• Quince: Up to 30% off site wide.

  • Worth noting: Cashmere Trouser Sock, Italian Leather 70mm Strappy Heel, 100% Leather Oversized Bomber Jacket, Mongolian Cashmere Crewneck Sweater

• H&M: 30% off everything for members.

  • Worth noting: Silk Neck Scarf, Smocked Velour Skirt, Teddy Fleece Jacket

• COS: COS is celebrating Black Friday this year with 25% off sitewide.

  • Worth noting: Chunky Pure Cashmere Crew-Neck Sweater, Lace-Trimmed Satin Slip Dress, Tailored Metalized Wool-Blend Long Coat, Gallery Clutch Bag - Crocodile-Effect Leather, Leather Cat-Eye Sunglasses

• Banana Republic: Black Friday (11/24 – 11/29): 40% off Regular Price including Cashmere. Cyber Monday (11/30 – 12/3): 40% off Purchase including Cashmere & New Arrivals.

  • Worth noting: Italian Merino-Blend Mixed-Stitch Sweater, Jersey & Taffeta Halter Maxi Dress, Leather Barrel Bag

• J.Crew: 40% off your entire purchase.

Accessory Sales of Note:

• Chord: 20% off almost everything.

  • Worth noting: Cinnamon Brown Suede hat

• Electric Picks: 30% off.

  • Worth noting: Ivy Earrings, Heiress 2 Tone Ring, Initial Bracelet

• Margaux: 20% off site wide.

  • Worth noting: The Downtown Boot The Demi The Marlowe Loafer

• Freda Salvador: 25% off site wide.

  • Worth noting: Tricia Studded Boot, Jada Square Toe Ballet Flat

• M.Gemi: THELOVELIST for 15% off.

  • Worth noting: The Una Bootie, The Neva Tote

• Chan Luu: 25% off site wide.

• Margaux: 20% off everything.

  • Worth noting: The Downtown Boot ,The Demi, The Marlowe Loafer

• Sami Jewels: 30% off sitewide with code: SHINE30.

  • Worth noting: Mini Round Bezel Tennis Bracelet, Starburst Ring, Solid Bangle

• CADDIS: 25-50% off everything with code GOBBLE.

• Adina Reyter: 20% off at checkout.

• Jimmy Choo: 40% off select styles.

Home + Lifestyle Sales of Note:

• 1stdibs: holiday sale up to 60% off.

• Gardenheir: Save 15% on everything.

• Nordic Knots: 15% off on rugs, curtains, bedding & decor, and 30% clearance sale on outgoing rugs.

• Bose: Up to 45% off.

  • Worth noting: Bose QuietComfort Headphones, Bose SoundLink Home Bluetooth Speaker

• Sonos: Save 25% on the Premium Entertainment Set (Arc Ultra + Sub 4). Save 20% on Arc Ultra and Sub 4. Save 23% on Era 100. Save 21% on Era 300. Save 20% on Move 2. Save 30% on Sonos Ace.

• Flamingo Estate: 20% off best-sellers.

• Ruggable: THELOVELIST for 15% off.

  • Worth noting: Infinity Monogram Doormat, Impasto Taupe Rug, Serenata Terracotta Rug

• Cumulus: $200 off cold brew coffee machine—no code needed.

  • Worth noting: The Cumulus Machine, The Cold Tumbler

• Brooklinen: 25% off sitewide.

  • Worth noting: Luxe Sateen Hardcore Sheet Bundle, Super-Plush Robe

• Crate and Barrel: Up to 50% off.

  • Worth noting: Marin Sand Stoneware Dinner Plates, Isla Brass Triangle Mini Table Lamp

• Cann: 30% off sitewide (11/17–11/27) and then 35% off sitewide (11/28–12/2).

  • Worth noting: Roadie Seasonal Starter Pack

• Etsy: Get up to 60% off.

  • Worth noting: Personalized Wine Bag, Custom Playing Cards

• Willie’s Remedy +: Shop 25% off everything, GWP on orders over $150.

  • Worth noting: Willie’s Remedy+ 5mg THC Infused Seltzer Variety 12 Pack, The High Road Bundle

• Loftie: 25% off sitewide (Nov 28–30) and 25% off sitewide + a free gift with purchase on Cyber Monday (December 1).

  • Worth noting: Loftie Clock, Loftie Lamp, Night Lights

• Brick: Up to 30% off.

• Sleep Crown: Sitewide sale, discount applied at checkout.