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This Valentine's Day, Dump Him.
A gift guide for yourself.
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Winter, As Understood by the Fashion Internet
An Inbox Stylist for the extremely online.
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Substack Starter Pack: Get Hot(ter) Edition
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THE LIST: Tassels, Turquoise, and Toteme
Is 2026 the year of the peptide?
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The Love List's Best of Beauty 2025
The 40 products that defined our year.
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The Rise of the Edfluencer, the Relatability Trap, and What Creators Actually Owe You.
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In and Out for 2025, According to Internet Cool Girls
Jan 3, 2025
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The Substack Starter Pack
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Let DJ Samantha Ronson Soundtrack Your New Year’s Eve
If you start the playlist at 11:03:54 PM, DMX will bring you into 2026.
Dec 31, 2025
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How I Protect My Year Before Anyone Else Gets Their Hands on It
The week where nothing is real and everything is possible.
Dec 28, 2025
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Dive into The Cult World of Invitation-Only Shopping
HOT GIRLS AT THE TRUNK SHOW: elite-level shopping is major inside baseball
Dec 13, 2025
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Gifts for the Extremely Analog
End the tyranny of screens! (For a minute.)
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Dear Santa: I Am Both Completely Unhinged and Very Cold.
Entering my flow state: delusional shopping nirvana, motivated by warmth.
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Gifts for the Low-Key Rich B*tch
A refined guest edit from two of the internet's most elusive cool girls.
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The Year That Began on Fire.
I spent the rest trying to catch my breath.
Dec 5, 2025
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Gifts for the Coolest Guy You Know
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Dec 3, 2025
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26 Things That Absolutely Delighted Me in November
Italian cashmere, silver egg cups, new Chanel, and designer chocolates.
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